Friday, December 19, 2008

Okay this happened like a few weeks ago.

Dear friend, please note that your insecurities are not only annoying me but hurting me too. You have been targetting your insecurities on every one of us, your friends, and I think its just not nice and wrong.

You know that you're insecure, or maybe you just don't want to admit so. You know that we know you are insecure, and you keep using this knowledge as your trump card. You played on this factor and put us down to esteem yourself.

You know, once or twice, a subtle shot from you was still forgivable. We tried to understand and ignore it, if it could boost you a little, we guessed we could bear with it. And sure it boosted you, not in your insecurities, but in your courage to step up a notch in your shots, the extremeness, the frequency, the emphasis, the audience and also the hurt.

I believe it has now become a habit, or maybe a hobby even. It is rather unbearable and it has really got out of hand. May we request you stop all of it? I just don't know how to tell you that its hurting so badly cos apparently you're insecure.

I guess, maybe, things will not change cos everyone knows you're stubborn, unwilling to accept good changes. Accepting others for who they are shouldn't be taken in too literally as you have done so.